Love: A lot going around.

I'm by no means a professional on love, the most love I got was from watching sex scenes during the huge "erotic thriller" boom of the mid-ninties in B-Movies. But still I'm sure on this thing only: Love is every changing and like Zen, it's everything at the same time. I'm going to go through a few points of love that I have observed.

1. Love as a biological reactions of hormones and chemicals etc. etc. AKA empty cold mission.

I have a friend who says this, or at least to some degree of this. I'll clarify that later and I don't blame him for being quite rejected, especially after his first major relationships during junior high. And to tell the truth, that may be the case, love is merely some combination of chemical reactions and biological instincts that motivate us to procreate and pass on our DNA. If only that were so easy for a human being. The key thing is:

How we "interact" about these instincts causing love.

That's it. That is love (at least in this point). I'm kinda sick and tired of the fact where something so wonderful as love can be somewhat seen as this cold factual item in a biology class. However since we are not lions of the savannah, having sexy for about 15 seconds 20 times a day without any schmoozing at all (just who's the biggest and leader of the pride), we do in fact need to explore a bit more than just dropping our pants, humping and say "Hope our offspring are healthy". Love it how humans interact with this biological feelings.

2. Love as a business

I have to agree with this as well. The fact of the matter is, sometimes love is like a business. You give some and you lose some, and for those unfortunate few, we do live in a society where money supercedes love often, therefore leading to the idea of security. Of course this item may be over-looked to those madly in love, and I don't blame them either since they're most likely to stay toegether or don't even care about it. So I guess this is for those people who can't find the love that stories of yore has told us from real experience. At least you have someone and money.

3. Breaking of hearts and multiple loves

I have to credit Madonna much for this. With her multiple partners before settling with Mr. Madonna, I think that love isn't merely just soul-mates or (s)he's the one. It may be the case through some sad twist of fate (or fortunate if you find her/him). I realize that sometimes love is about experience and it doesn't necessarily have to reside in one person alone. However I do at least believe that when you are with one person, you should stick with them for the time being and not see someone else on the side. I feel that perhaps someone's soul-mate is scattered into multiple people, and experiencing love with them brings that person closer to becoming happy. This isn't for everyone, but hey it happens. Broken hearts are hard to mend, and may never do so, but love is eternal to the degree of making you at least forget about those wounds.

4. sOuL MaTeS!

While at the same time I do believe that there are soulmates. Though it is quite peculiar because I understand that we have an entire vast world among us. Obviously your soul-mate would not be stranded in the same town or city that you live in, and instead fate's lovely send of humour wants you to find them. It might make it easy or hard but it's there.